{ a day in the life of ME }

My second posting in the { day in the life of ME } series...my great friend Maureen. She & I grew up in the same small town in upstate New York. We've known each other forever but have gotten closer (despite our geographic separation) in our motherhood adventures & our shared desire for a simple, sane & healthy lifestyle. Here's what her days are like. Doesn't her life INSPIRE you? And don't you think she should be paid to write?!?! NOTE: Her days begin at 4:30 AM. Yes, 4:30 AM everyday. Thank you Maureen for sharing your day with us...


There are few things in life that don’t require an asterisk (that is, an explanation, a disclaimer, some context.) I won’t spend time here describing what those things are because this is supposed to be about { a day in the life of ME } (which comes with its own long, winding trail of asterisks).

I’ll spare you the details and give you the Birdseye:

• I am not very organized in a tangible sense but I tend to see things clearly in my mind.
• I rarely feel productive enough but when I stop to think, I’ll admit I’ve accomplished a lot.
• I believe that a better way of doing things exists, but I’m okay with doing what works for now until I find it. I worry sometimes that I’ll never find it.

So before you read on, know that every asterisk you’ve ever read probably applies (including but definitely not limited to: every child is different, consult doctor before starting an exercise program, sleep requirements vary according to individual, never run alone, and side affects are rare but may include…).

Here is MY context:

• My daughter turned two in April. When she was nine months old, I left my job and started my own one-man business so that I could be home with her. I spend a lot of time studying how businesses and organizations operate compared to what their clients need and how they get what they need. Then I propose how these businesses and organizations can restructure or reconfigure what they do to: a) meet their clients real needs, b) increase productivity and outcomes, and c) maximize resources (money, time, people).

• What I really love to do is write but I wasn’t making the time to do it and no one was holding me accountable to do it. So I started a blog last October. While I’m not always sure where it will lead or what its purpose is, I am certain that I enjoy it. That is enough, for now.

• I do not have childcare for my daughter and I never have. What I do in a day is what I do in a day. Our families (my husband’s and mine) are a six-hour drive away. I could find help if I wanted to. But the truth is, I’m both blessed and motivated to make being home with her work. So I do. I make it work.

• I must run. I started running, seriously, about five years ago and I haven’t stopped since. You can read about why I love it here.

• I have an incredibly supportive and involved husband. He is my right hand and my left hand at the same time. We are in life and love together.

Here is MY day:


What You May Notice:

• My day starts at 4:30 am. I have always been an early bird; the difference is that now I moonlight with the night owls. It serves many purposes: (running, writing, paying the bills, and devoted Ava time when she wakes).

• I have three blocks of work and writing time on any given day, totaling between 7-10 hours. All while my daughter sleeps.*

• I have two blocks of Ava and ME time (not including sleep and meal activities)—one block serves to exercise our bodies the second to exercise our brains.

• I have one block of family time—sometimes we walk, sometimes we swim, sometimes we go for an ice-cream, sometimes we just play on the floor—the what isn’t important as long as we do it together, undivided in space and time.

*I know that every child is different, but as soon as I detected a pattern to her newborn ways, I put my daughter on a schedule. Knowing when she would sleep was essential to my ability to pull this business off—and now I’m convinced it’s a big part of why she is so happy, well adjusted, and smart (since it didn’t come from me)! As early as six-weeks old, Ava has had the opportunity to sleep in her own bed every single day at the same times (of course, times change with age). The result is a little girl who sleeps between 12-14 hours per night and 2-3 hours per day and tells me when she is tired and needs to sleep. That gives me lots of working and running time and gives her lots of processing and repairing time!

What You May Not Notice:

• I run six days a week and weight train at least twice a week.
• I practice yoga at least once a week, but I aim for twice.
• I pray every morning and feel off-balanced if I don’t; sometimes praying is just closing my eyes and being quiet.
• I make healthy dinners every night, except Saturday’s when we eat out; despite my intentions. to routinely plan ahead with my FeedME, I tend to know what I will fix only an hour before I put it on the table.
• We read in between everything (waking, potty, eating, sleeping) and sing on our way to everything.

So, while this day-in-the-life isn’t accessorized with glamour and Gucci, it sure is filled with loving and living. There are hard days among them and doubt-filled ones tucked in between, but what I’ve learned about days in general is that they pass way too quickly to want them to end…so on the bad ones, I think about what makes Ava happy—and then, suddenly, I am happy too.